Toy Story💬

Remember in our childhood we used to have a toy and were very fond of it, we don’t use to say it out loud instead just take it around everywhere, to sleep, while eating, bathing and there used to be times where we were told not to be with it anymore 
we used to kiss, hug it out, always talk to it, form a story around it, and sometimes beat it too. 

I can still feel the pain I felt when I lost my toy and my sister cried for weeks when someone stole her favorite toy.


What if the toy felt everything, and wanted to express its feelings but didn’t know how, not just happy but also love, pain, and anger, and didn’t know how or when?!
What if we had never known of all this and if we’d known would we have treated it the same or better different?
Better different, Always, isn’t it?

Now relate that toy situation to our lives someone who is around us, whom we love a lot but fail to express at times, gets angry, gets bored, burns the bridges for some trivial reason, and so on. 

What if we think like the little toy story all the time and interact with people with a realization that the person doesn’t know how to express or when to react, would that make any difference??

Puzzled isn’t it!?

Do check in on your friends, family, coworkers, maids, neighbors, and anyone around you, if you sense something is wrong just strike a conversation, a casual one, at times just sitting silently next to one person works out wonders. 
Cause we all know after losing a toy we have cried remembering about all the times we had and we could have! 

Let’s be kind, empathetic, and reasonable in all situations. Do know the mind is a very delicate, thin, fragile yet strongest component of our lives Sometimes we fail to remember how words or gestures impact our minds and speak influenced by the situation. Even if you’re letting people go out of your life for any reason let them go wishing good, let’s not create bitter memories.

-Hope
the world is a better place only if we make it a better place :)

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  1. Sathish Kumar.MSeptember 10, 2022 at 9:00 PM

    Thanks asha for writing such very important blog on this topic.
    As per psychologist suicide decision accumulates over a period of time and finally a day the person kills himself... people may think a guy was so normal and looking peaceful how he can take his life ....but he was carrying the thought for over a time without a way timeshare with some one ....

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