Be in the gray

"Only a fool would try to be perfect at all times!
Proving yourself by being everything to everyone is a way to bid goodbye to your essence,
Peace of mind is to stay unaffected when things seem gray, not when they are black or white.
Let a fish think that a bird is carefree and let a bird think a shark is the master of all!"

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