what are you?





What are you, 

If you're not helping someone before they ask?
If you're not loving someone without expecting it in return?
if you're not able to identify someone in need?
If you're not able to forgive someone without an apology?
If you're not truly sorry?
If you're not what you say?
If you're not the person with the traits you wish in others?
If you're not able to move on gracefully?
If you're not appreciating different lives led by people?
If you're not living and loving the presence of your beloved ones in life every day?
If you're not wishing for better things while loving your current life?
If you're not grateful for the love showered by others?
If you're not grateful for the time, effort, and energy spent by your loved ones in caring for you?
If you're not able to understand the emotions of others and be respectful, 
If you're not able to recognize that we are always flawed and can be better by cherishing ourselves at the same time?
 
What are you? If you're not you!

-Hope

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