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Bigger Person!

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In the process of being the bigger person, people often think you're easy—someone who will always come back, no matter what. The art of being a better person is often confused with being the bigger person. For me, when you have to be the bigger person, you don't have to forgive every single person for their every single mistake. "Mistake" might be the wrong word, as who are we to judge, but if soemone has hurt you, then you don't have to accept their apologies without a genuine apology from them. In the act of forgiveness, you tend to carry all the dead weight of your life! Yes, you heard me right! Not everyone is genuinely present in your life, and life at times throws you off balance to help you understand this and to cut that weight. But no! You're told you need to be the bigger person, which in turn supposedly makes you the better person! If you don't make people face the consequences for their actions, then you're simply becoming a par...
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My influencer

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Who is my influencer? Is it the learned and accomplished? Jack of all trades? Knows about every field and sets a high standard of reputation and of living. Is it the learner and ambitious? Who is always on to learning something new with every experience, who slows down to bounce back even harder.  The one who remains active for god knows how many years, hustling. Is it the super humble know-nothing pupil? The one who is eager to learn, one who puts in efforts and is so fragile of losing. The one who learns failure means to never have tried in the first place and gets up to try again. Is it the one, is so respectful of everyone who gives an opportunity and is grateful for everything. Is it the kid?   who is carefree, wholeheartedly happy with even the slightest gestures and isn't sad for too long. For the kid, every moment is a new moment. Is it the elderly?  who has seen lives, lived a life and has calmed down after experiencing everything. The one who now adv...
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How?

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I read: " Mistakes are what makes us human " " if you never try, you'll never know " But,  how does one acknowledge and recover from, that one mistake, that one wrong friendship, that one wrong company, that one wrong step in the career, that one wrong step in a relationship, that one wrong relationship, that one wrong reaction to an action, that one wrong impression, that one wrong day, and so forth. How can one gather back all the confidence without questioning their credibility and ask for another chance? How can one break that one wrong cycle of wrongs? - Hope
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Happy Women's Day, is it?

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Happy Women's Day to all the wonderful ladies of my life. ~ Oh, here comes the "women" card! You guys deserve the world. ~  I just don't want to hit a women! We wish to celebrate you every day, beautiful women. ~ Ugh, can't you women just let it go? Why does everything with you guys come with such big drama? We wish to give you every best thing in the world. ~ Dude, you know in the party, I made up a joke, "I'm scared of my wife, and that I don't have freedom." Everyone cracked up!  Oh, my wife? she's at home, my parents are visiting, and she's taking care of them. Women can do wonders for the world. All they need is opportunity. ~ Of course SHE got promoted AND got a raise! You know what I mean! Every day is Women's Day, or should be Women's Day. ~ You know, for you girls, everything is easy. Feminism, oh, equality, now everything comes on a platter . We need more women power, shepreneur! ~ We'll let you know if we need any i...
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maybe we simply can't

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It has been a while since I penned something down… Because most didn’t care when I did, and there was a point in time, it affected me. Anyway, here it goes! Timelines … Dec 2023 - identified that the work life is hectic, and it may cost my personal time…. little did I know, damage was already done. Jan 2024 - didn’t know what to do, biggest achievement of my life but later in the month guilted me for even thinking of celebrating. Feb 2024 - running blind and pointless, screaming in the void. Mar 2024 - searching for happiness, not in words, trying to find the familiarity in something or anything… getting sucked into a black hole. April 2024 - fearing the end, anxious 24/7, still functioning at my max work capacity. May 2024 - searching for help, not through exact words, but actions, my face could say it, someone holding my hand could have said it… all I had was to be there… I gave up… I drowned in my misery for the first and the last time …  my dog noticed, only he noticed… ...
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Be in the gray

"Only a fool would try to be perfect at all times! Proving yourself by being everything to everyone is a way to bid goodbye to your essence, Peace of mind is to stay unaffected when things seem gray, not when they are black or white. Let a fish think that a bird is carefree and let a bird think a shark is the master of all!"
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